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why I'm leaving the Red Pill.
my time in the manosphere
May 3
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i am ready to give up on my dreams.
on fairy dust, stem cells, and sweeping the floor again
Feb 13
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Danny Li
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i'm obsessed with women and tired of pretending i'm not
on kissing girls, feeling small, and hitting the books
Oct 12, 2025
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Danny Li
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wanting to be known
on identity, aspiration, and the badges we wear
Aug 24, 2025
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how to stop feeling so bad about everything
on perfectionism and reframing shame
Jul 27, 2025
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Danny Li
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if you're so smart, why are you so unhappy?
on tortured geniuses, forms of intelligence, and solving for happiness
Jun 23, 2025
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Danny Li
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I hate my smartphone and got rid of it
reflections from 30 days of freedom
May 18, 2025
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Danny Li
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don't chase virality. chase connection.
building an online audience
Apr 6, 2025
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Danny Li
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the will to do laundry
avoiding my problems
Mar 23, 2025
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Danny Li
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digging for diamonds
choosing quantity over quality
Mar 9, 2025
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Danny Li
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please love me. please care.
the hole in an artist's heart
Mar 2, 2025
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Danny Li
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the joy of starting over
here's to new pursuits
Feb 23, 2025
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Danny Li
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