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iris 🌹's avatar

what a lovely read! i am such a perfectionist when it comes to my work even though i'm not that good yet. it's counterintuitive! i have to be unafraid of publishing imperfect pieces in order to become a better writer. this was the reminder i needed. thank you!

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Casually Yours's avatar

Everything you wrote is so true and relatable. Especially being new here, this is a great reminder as I go about my day today. Great piece!

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Zeina Zayour's avatar

This is helpful. Thank you for sharing Danny. I keep going back to edit the same pieces over and over again. And I have just started. I am a completely new writer. So this is good to know. These are good lessons to learn.

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Devon Nako's avatar

Danny, I just found your Substack and appreciation the points made in this piece. I haven't had a consistent writing practice until about a year ago, and at first, I second guessed every idea I had. Eventually I realized that the "perfect" idea rarely manifests and fuels you to finish a project, especially long-term ones. You just have to commit to a regular practice and know that the reps are part of it.

Funny that your teacher mentioned Bob Dylan's discography. My friends and I are listening to full discographies every few months, and we started with the Beatles. It's obviously insane how many S-tier songs they've put out, but I was shocked by how many (in my opinion, nobody kill me) D- and C-tier songs they wrote too. The only people that would hate on a mediocre piece of art, even when you've created genuinely good art as well, are people who have never created anything and put themselves out there. It's scary, and most of your stuff will be meh.

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Danny Li's avatar

Hey Devon. Personally I love the Beatles but I'm aware that not all their stuff is great. If you end up writing about it, please let me know - I'd like to hear your thoughts.

I agree that the fear of putting out mediocre work holds a lot of artists back. If perfection is one of the requirements of your work, you'll never release anything. I used to fall victim to this mindset, so for my writing practice, I'm determined to post weekly and not to fall into the trap of trying too hard to perfect my work. Glad to hear you were able to commit to your practice too.

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Devon Nako's avatar

I hadn’t even considered writing about the discography deep dive but it could be really fun!

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Wild Pacific's avatar

You’re right. Inner critic could be fought. He always wants to cancel you, calling you an impostor.

Keep on going, goal is to improve.

(Scarabs)

You write your song, and sing.

And it is nice.

Then someone heard you, and decided rashly

Exhale a snicker and provide their “wise”

Advise

And condescendingly proceed to patronize

And suddenly — a wave of these emotions

That always hide just under armor, paper-thin,

Just under fragile skin,

That was supposed to shield you from weather

Of “critical” feedback that serves no purpose

Except of pleasing those that criticize.

The more we sing, the more the ones who don’t

Would find a way to let us know that maybe

What we create is useless or misshapen,

Or doesn’t rhyme, or banal, or obscene.

They want to see reaction, ruffled feathers,

Defensiveness, dramatic scene.

And yet we have to … simply sing.

Whatever happens, maybe let it happen.

Just take the hit and grin.

Begin.

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The Knight In The Matrix's avatar

Thank you Danny 👋

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Looking Back On It's avatar

True about art (music, writing, painting, photography), presentations and lectures, conversations with people, sales and marketing, science and research, and pretty much everything I have ever done. Hell, it was actually true about dating. I went out with many women before I met the woman of my dreams!

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